The point of no return (Ejaculation control for men)

Can you last as long as you want? Most men come within 3-5 minutes from the moment they penetrate. Some men last even less than that. In the previous video in this series, we discussed how finding your ‘Why’ can help you last longer in bed (watch it here) But how do you actually do … Read more

How to surrender to your man?

Aren’t you tired of making all the decisions, of having so many responsibilities, of needing to keep it all together? Wouldn’t you love to be led and guided, at least sometimes? Aren’t you secretly yearning to surrender to your man? Surrender. Maybe you want to surrender. But you don’t know how to. Where’s the button … Read more

Matt Schwenteck Unique Tantra Interview

Around early-mid 2016 I interviewed Matt Schwenteck of www.uniquetantra.com who is a sexual healer and an educator. We go quite deep into sexual healing, Anal de-armouring. The dynamics of giving and receiving pleasure and Matt also shares some his personal challenges related to this line of work. It is really a deep conversation not just for sexual … Read more

Matt Schwenteck Unique Tantra Interview

A while ago I interviewed Matt Schwenteck of www.uniquetantra.com who is a sexual healer and an educator. We go quite deep into sexual healing, Anal de-armouring. The dynamics of giving and receiving pleasure and Matt also shares some his personal challenges related to this line of work. It is really a deep conversation not just for sexual … Read more

Ejaculation control – 7 mistakes men make when trying to last longer

Let’s face it. Most men would like to last longer, and most women wish their partners did. The average man lasts three to five minutes, and that’s not enough for most women to orgasm. But it’s not even about the woman’s orgasm. Penetrative sex offers a particular kind of connection between partners. So naturally you … Read more

Ejaculation control – Finding your WHY to lasting longer in bed

When men try to last longer, they usually focus on the ‘how’ – Squeeze this, breathe there, etc. But the real secret to lasting longer is finding WHY it doesn’t serve you to ejaculate and WHY it’s so powerful to control your ejaculation. Post your questions and comments below so I can answer them in … Read more

Forge Your Life interview with Richard Phu

I was just interviewed on ‘Forge your life’ with Richard Phu. We talked about how I started with my journey into sexuality, why sexual empowerment is important, and how people are dealing with sexual issues and how it is affecting their lives.   You can listen here, and read full transcript below: Full Transcript:   Host: Alright guys, welcome … Read more

Ejaculation? – 20 mistakes men make when trying to last longer

Let’s face it. Most men would like to last longer, and most women wish their partners did. The average man lasts three to five minutes, and that’s not enough for most women to orgasm. But it’s not even about the woman’s orgasm. Penetrative sex offers a particular kind of connection between partners. So naturally you … Read more