‘Orgasm Unleashed’ 2nd edition is due August 2026

The 2nd edition of my book “Orgasm Unleashed – Your guide to Pleasure, Healing, and Power” will be available in August. It’s been 11 years since I published “Orgasm Unleashed”. Over this period, I’ve heard from women who, by reading this book, experienced their first orgasm, multiple orgasms, new kinds of orgasms, or long ecstatic … Read more

Seek union through love, not stimulation

She arrives at my home. We planned to meet and make love and we’re happy to see each other after a few days apart. We hug and look into each other’s eyes. I put on some soft Latin music and we slow-dance in the living room. I’m enjoying how she lets me lead her. We … Read more

How Ejaculation Control changed my life – More Pleasure, Love, and Power

Ejaculation control changed my life. After more than twenty years of practice, the biggest changes came in three areas: Pleasure, Love and Power. I have far more pleasure than I used to, including orgasmic states that last for long minutes without ejaculating, and I’m able to bring my partner to pleasure, deep long orgasms, and … Read more

20 mistakes men make when trying to last longer

Let’s face it.  Most men would like to last longer, and most women wish their partners did.  The average man lasts three to five minutes, and that’s not enough for most women to orgasm. But it’s not even about the woman’s orgasm. Penetrative sex offers a particular kind of connection between partners. So naturally you … Read more