20 mistakes men make when trying to last longer

Let’s face it.  Most men would like to last longer, and most women wish their partners did.  The average man lasts three to five minutes, and that’s not enough for most women to orgasm. But it’s not even about the woman’s orgasm. Penetrative sex offers a particular kind of connection between partners. So naturally you … Read more

The Point of No Return: What It Is and How to Use It to Last Longer Naturally

The point of no return (PNR) is the moment when arousal tips into ejaculation. It happens a few seconds before you ejaculate, at roughly 80% of your pleasure. Once you cross it, the process is automatic and cannot be stopped. Learning to recognize this point, and to pause before you reach it, is the most … Read more

How to surrender to your man?

Aren’t you tired of making all the decisions, of having so many responsibilities, of needing to keep it all together? Wouldn’t you love to be led and guided, at least sometimes? Aren’t you secretly yearning to surrender to your man? Surrender. Maybe you want to surrender. But you don’t know how to. Where’s the button … Read more

Matt Schwenteck Unique Tantra Interview

Around early-mid 2016 I interviewed Matt Schwenteck of www.uniquetantra.com who is a sexual healer and an educator. We go quite deep into sexual healing, Anal de-armouring. The dynamics of giving and receiving pleasure and Matt also shares some his personal challenges related to this line of work. It is really a deep conversation not just for sexual … Read more

Matt Schwenteck Unique Tantra Interview

A while ago I interviewed Matt Schwenteck of www.uniquetantra.com who is a sexual healer and an educator. We go quite deep into sexual healing, Anal de-armouring. The dynamics of giving and receiving pleasure and Matt also shares some his personal challenges related to this line of work. It is really a deep conversation not just for sexual … Read more

Ejaculation control – 7 mistakes men make when trying to last longer

Let’s face it. Most men would like to last longer, and most women wish their partners did. The average man lasts three to five minutes, and that’s not enough for most women to orgasm. But it’s not even about the woman’s orgasm. Penetrative sex offers a particular kind of connection between partners. So naturally you … Read more

Forge Your Life interview with Richard Phu

I was just interviewed on ‘Forge your life’ with Richard Phu. We talked about how I started with my journey into sexuality, why sexual empowerment is important, and how people are dealing with sexual issues and how it is affecting their lives.   You can listen here, and read full transcript below: Full Transcript:   Host: Alright guys, welcome … Read more

Her first tantric sex experience

Have you ever wondered how tantric sex could feel like? I’ve received this beautiful letter that a woman has shared with the first man she had tantric sex with, and with her permission, i share it with you: “I could still feel you inside me for days after we made love. My body could so … Read more

Ejaculation control – WHY lasting longer could change your life!

When men try to last longer, they usually focus on the ‘how’ – Squeeze this, breathe there, etc. But the real secret to lasting longer is finding WHY it doesn’t serve you to ejaculate and WHY it’s so powerful to control your ejaculation. Register to the free ejaculation control program to get 6 more videos … Read more