20 mistakes men make when trying to last longer

Let’s face it.  Most men would like to last longer, and most women wish their partners did.  The average man lasts three to five minutes, and that’s not enough for most women to orgasm. But it’s not even about the woman’s orgasm. Penetrative sex offers a particular kind of connection between partners. So naturally you … Read more

Welcome Consciously Speaking Podcast listeners

Welcome “Consciously Speaking” podcast listeners. As you know I was recently interviewed by Micheal Neeley on his podcast at  Consciously Speaking, which aims to help others, who like himself, have a true and deep desire for self development and change. Its a place where he gathers advice from experts in many fields to help those with … Read more

Are we sexually repressed and don’t know it?

As a sexual empowerment coach, I get to know a lot about what’s happening in people’s bedrooms, and in their minds. When I tell people that I’m a sex coach, some of them get uncomfortable, awkward and evasive. These are educated, intelligent, successful and influential people, so why does the prospect of discussing such a … Read more

The Point of No Return: What It Is and How to Use It to Last Longer Naturally

The point of no return (PNR) is the moment when arousal tips into ejaculation. It happens a few seconds before you ejaculate, at roughly 80% of your pleasure. Once you cross it, the process is automatic and cannot be stopped. Learning to recognize this point, and to pause before you reach it, is the most … Read more

Subtle Disruptors: Interview

You can also check out my interview and others at Subtle Disruptors. “I don’t think there is an area of our collective lives that is more hidden, shamed, repressed and misdirected than our sexuality. If we could embrace and understand our sexuality, learning how to express and explore it in an enabling, opening and life brining way, … Read more

How to surrender to your man?

Aren’t you tired of making all the decisions, of having so many responsibilities, of needing to keep it all together? Wouldn’t you love to be led and guided, at least sometimes? Aren’t you secretly yearning to surrender to your man? Surrender. Maybe you want to surrender. But you don’t know how to. Where’s the button … Read more

Melissa Ambrosini Podcast

Last week I was interviewed by the vivacious Melissa Ambrosini, and her show went to number 1 on the itunes charts for 2 whole days! I was one of the deepest interviews I’ve had and she asked me about things no one has gotten me to talk about yet, it was fantastic! You can check … Read more

Tantrapunk Podcast – Resisting the Compulsion to Ejaculate

I was just featured on the Tantrapunk podcast! We explored the cultural factors involved in compulsive ejaculation patterns in men, with an emphasis on the how and why to transcend the ejaculation trap. We also discussed the insights into the sex industry and my vision of helping to raise consciousness about the potential of transformation … Read more

Unstagnate: podcast interview with Almog Flitter

I was recently interviewed by Almog Flitter on his podcast at  Unstagnate, which aims to help others, who like himself, have a true and deep desire for self development and change. Its a place where he gathers advice from experts in many fields to help those with an open mind to continue there journey of learning … Read more

Are we sexually repressed and don’t know it?

As a sexual empowerment coach, I get to know a lot about what’s happening in people’s bedrooms, and in their minds. When I tell people that I’m a sex coach, some of them get uncomfortable, awkward and evasive. These are educated, intelligent, successful and influential people, so why does the prospect of discussing such a … Read more