If you want a man – let go of the boys (Poem)

You are yearning to open, yearning to surrender, yearning to be loved, and yearning to express your love. You are yearning to, but afraid to. What you are afraid of, is what you are yearning for. The man you yearn for will make you feel safe, but he will also scare you just a little … Read more

If you build it – they will… what?

“If you build it – they will come”? Bullshit! That’s the kind of new-age non-sense that keeps talented people broke, and unknown. That’s what keeps your gift un-given. That’s what keeps people from benefiting from your art or service. That’s what separates an amateur from a professional. You could be the greatest artist, healer or … Read more

Awakening female pleasure workshops

After over 10 years of sexual healing and coaching, I’m excited to announce that i’m starting to share my experience with individuals and sexuality professionals. My goal is: To teach men how to touch, pleasure, heal and empower women To teach sexuality professionals to serve and empower clients on a deeper level I’ve started my … Read more

Ideal Life Exercise

In order to live a better life, you need to have a picture, a vision, of what that ideal life looks like. The easiest is to project 6 months into the future. Be realistic, but allow yourself to dream out of your comfort zone. First, describe your life in general. How does your life look … Read more

How dare a man talk about women’s sexuality?!

I’m a man. I write, teach, and coach people about sexuality, and a large part of what I teach is about female-sexuality – women’s bodies, experiences, and orgasms. I’m sometimes asked: “How dare a man talk about women’s sexuality?!!” “How can a man relate to the experiences and sensations of a body he doesn’t have?” … Read more

Ejaculation control – 7 mistakes men make when trying to last longer

Let’s face it. Most men would like to last longer, and most women wish their partners did. The average man lasts three to five minutes, and that’s not enough for most women to orgasm. But it’s not even about the woman’s orgasm. Penetrative sex offers a particular kind of connection between partners. So naturally you … Read more

My 7th day on the water fast – nearly finished

Yesterday was my 7th day on a water fast. It has been an epic experience. Challenging and rewarding. I was tired and weak most of the time, sometimes even brain-foggy, and suddenly on the 7th day got very clear and energized and had the longest and most vigorous power-walk in the whole week. This morning, the 8th … Read more

The most powerful orgasm she ever had

I help women experience new and powerful orgasms even via skype coaching. Read this meaningful and heart-warming account of one of my client’s experiences: “I think I had the most powerful orgasm ever in this session without any insertion! I started with hands on the yoni and breast and my spine was slightly undulating like … Read more